Question, do you ever get wrapped up in the “should’ve,
could’ve, would’ve’s?” Are you
scratching your head, thinking aloud, “what in the hell, is Kimberly talking
about?” LOL, Well, simply put, the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve’s” are when
you replay a certain scenario in your mind.
You think about a specific situation/interaction from your past and you
start second guessing your reaction/response to the said scenario. That “second guessing yourself" is
essentially you thinking, you ‘should
have,’ ‘would have,’ and/or if
you ‘could have’ done, or said something
differently; it would have most likely resulted in a new/different outcome,
where you’re deemed the absolute victor. So now that you’re all caught up on
the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve’s.” It actually is the worst damn space to be in!
I guess for those that believe in the
proverbial state of ‘limbo,’ this would be the equivalent of SCW’s. Y’all know I had to make the dang
acronym, it’s a lot to keep typing out fully. In addition, if you’re an avid
reader of my previous blogs, you will recall that I love to create and utilize
an acronym! The SCW
Syndrome, yes, I decided to make it a ‘syndrome!’ What else can you call “emotions
or actions that usually form an identifiable pattern?” Sure, I could’ve (<- see, I’m doing it right
there!) selected the word ‘disease,’ or, ‘disorder;’ but ‘syndrome’ just flowed
better. So like I was saying, initially, you know, BEFORE I decided to jump in
and cut myself off… SMH. Anyway, SCW Syndrome is suffered by many. Some people deal with SCW Syndrome in silence.
Well, I’m going to set you free today! Liberate yourselves, admit this
is a ‘condition’ that we need to abolish entirely from our lives!! I know somewhere, in some part of the world,
someone just said it out loud, “I am
insert
your first name here and I have SCW Syndrome!” Now that you’re aware, you aren’t the only
person in life to ever live in this void space.
You may even start to ‘regret’ your initial decision. Once again, I need
to help you, “regret is a useless emotion!” You can’t realistically go back in
time and rewind a situation. Like this is real life, not one of those “Back to
the Future” franchise flicks. The past, is just that, the past! It’s over, it’s
never, ever going to come back! Move forward and you’ll live in a space that is
amazingly FREE! We have to stop torturing ourselves unnecessarily! We’re a
culture of over analytical, jumpy, quizzical human beings that live in cloudy
realm of self-doubt. I can no longer be an active participant in this culture
of self-abuse, LMAO…. Seriously though, I’m proclaiming a new way for myself
and hopefully you, yes, YOU, will join me in abandoning SCW
Syndrome. So tell me, are you in??
Smooches, Hugs & Much Love...
Kimberly
Kimberly
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