Do you suffer from S.C.W. Syndrome? Find out here!

Question, do you ever get wrapped up in the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve’s?”  Are you scratching your head, thinking aloud, “what in the hell, is Kimberly talking about?” LOL, Well, simply put, the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve’s” are when you replay a certain scenario in your mind.  You think about a specific situation/interaction from your past and you start second guessing your reaction/response to the said scenario.  That “second guessing yourself" is essentially you thinking, you ‘should have,’ ‘would have,’ and/or if you ‘could have’ done, or said something differently; it would have most likely resulted in a new/different outcome, where you’re deemed the absolute victor. So now that you’re all caught up on the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve’s.”  It actually is the worst damn space to be in!  I guess for those that believe in the proverbial state of ‘limbo,’ this would be the equivalent of SCW’s. Y’all know I had to make the dang acronym, it’s a lot to keep typing out fully. In addition, if you’re an avid reader of my previous blogs, you will recall that I love to create and utilize an acronym!  The SCW Syndrome, yes, I decided to make it a ‘syndrome!’ What else can you call “emotions or actions that usually form an identifiable pattern?” Sure, I could’ve (<- see, I’m doing it right there!) selected the word ‘disease,’ or, ‘disorder;’ but ‘syndrome’ just flowed better. So like I was saying, initially, you know, BEFORE I decided to jump in and cut myself off… SMH.  Anyway, SCW Syndrome is suffered by many.  Some people deal with SCW Syndrome in silence.  Well, I’m going to set you free today! Liberate yourselves, admit this is a ‘condition’ that we need to abolish entirely from our lives!!  I know somewhere, in some part of the world, someone just said it out loud, “I am insert your first name here and I have SCW Syndrome!” Now that you’re aware, you aren’t the only person in life to ever live in this void space.  You may even start to ‘regret’ your initial decision. Once again, I need to help you, “regret is a useless emotion!” You can’t realistically go back in time and rewind a situation. Like this is real life, not one of those “Back to the Future” franchise flicks. The past, is just that, the past! It’s over, it’s never, ever going to come back! Move forward and you’ll live in a space that is amazingly FREE! We have to stop torturing ourselves unnecessarily! We’re a culture of over analytical, jumpy, quizzical human beings that live in cloudy realm of self-doubt. I can no longer be an active participant in this culture of self-abuse, LMAO…. Seriously though, I’m proclaiming a new way for myself and hopefully you, yes, YOU, will join me in abandoning SCW Syndrome. So tell me, are you in??

 

Smooches, Hugs & Much Love...
Kimberly